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May be it was not functioning as a couple, but you still love him / her – as a friend – and you want to be able to call it to ensure they are good. But can you still be friends with an ex.
Of course, you can be friends with an ex. I am good friends with (some) of my ex and anyone who has an ex of a friend tells you that it is a special kind of friendship. It is comfortable and familiar, because they "understand" you.
But this is not the same for all peoples. Exes can be friends if;
1) You have given each other time making the transition from lovers to friends
2) You are absolutely certain of what caused the split and you're not home or walk in to this topic
3) The split was mutual, or at least you've talked about it and there is no grudge
4) You do not feel the need to prove to him that you are still "hot"
5) Not using your ex as a substitute to that you meet "The One"
6) You're not having sex with him / her – sex with a familiar body can be very tempting!
7) You do not want him / her but you do not want anyone else to have him / her
You've Found happiness with your single life – and not tried from time to time to spy on him / her
9) You look at him / her and thinks he / she looks unhappy because he or she will lack
10) Your boyfriend (or who you're attracted to) is not a replica your ex
11) You are absolutely sure you're not going to the next person pay for the crimes of your former
12) You can allow to see your ex with someone else and not feel hurt
For friendship at work, it is very important that your ex clearly understands that friends is all you. If it proves not only that you two may be "just friends" is preferable cut loose before completely losing what remains of the "no hard feelings" break.
Also keep in mind that both you and your ex want to be friends, the next person who comes into his life might not be comfortable with it. If you're really a "friend" no strings attached, you should be able to let him / her continue with her life with someone else – and be happy themselves.
If you are in trouble (or going crazy over) with getting over a relationship that has drifted apart for no apparent reason, the distribution was your fault and you think it may have been prevented or if you are considering giving your ex a second chance (and when there is a second test), I have a whole section on my site dedicated to men and women who seek to love again but feeling stuck on an ex, and everyone believed her lover of the moment is stuck on a former (some telltale signs that he / she is really an ex).
Exes are a huge problem for most people and you are bound to meet someone who is not on or is being harassed by one. If he / she is not yet over automatically when he / she is not ready for a committed relationship and you need to know that instead of wasting your time on a go-no-where-relationship. If you can perhaps help to steer away from someone who has just split (including your ex) to what has happened and sometimes it seems permanent.
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